Getting the news that you’re pregnant can release a wide range of emotions. Especially if the pregnancy was unplanned. People react in many different ways to a surprise pregnancy. Here’s my favorite.

You’re pregnant. If you’re a married couple that has been trying, perhaps with some difficulty, to start a family, then those words will unleash exuberant joy. The thing for which you’ve been praying and working is now at hand. Hallelujah!!! You’re pregnant!

If you’re a married couple that thought your days of raising children were behind you, but your intimacy has resulted in a surprise coming to your later years, then those words may come with some trepidation. Planning a baby shower in your forties pretty much says it all, doesn’t it? Surprise !!! You’re pregnant!

If you’re an unwed woman who discovers she is with child, there will be a lot of questions and fears. I know of no one who has deliberately decided to create an obligation likely to run two decades or more, especially given the enormous difficulties being an unwed mother faces in so many ways. Raising a child on your own is an overwhelming challenge at best, and can be a nightmare. Oops! You’re pregnant!

But if you’re a teenage girl from a nice Jewish family in ancient Nazareth, you’ve got a whole other set of problems.


Nazareth was a small village in Mary’s day. The living area of Nazareth was only about 30 acres, it would hold no more than a few hundred people. Nazareth is famous for only one thing. If Jesus hadn’t been born there it would be like hundreds of other villages from that region whose name no one knows. Yet into this tiny, unknown village the angel Gabriel descends with news that will rock Mary’s world, then her family’s and finally ours.

When Gabriel laid out God’s plan for her to become pregnant with a child who would be called “the Son of the Most High” she was dumbfounded. Mary’s question to Gabriel let’s us know that she was old enough to be aware of the mechanics of the process.
When Mary agreed to the Lord’s plan, everything she had of value was up for grabs. Mary didn’t know if her father and mother would believe her explanation, but she could be fairly certain that most of the village would not. Close behind her concerns for her parents would be questions about the man betrothed to become her husband. Joseph would have grave doubts, naturally. But they would be the only “natural” thing about this entire situation.

The next thing we know, Mary is arising with haste and heading into the hill country to a town in Judah. Luke doesn’t describe why she left so quickly. I’ve wondered if it was to get out of town before she needed to explain what was happening within her young body. That’s pure speculation, of course.

When Mary arrives at the home of her relative Elizabeth, we learn of another miracle. Inexplicably, Elizabeth knows Mary is pregnant, she knows that the child to be born will become her Lord, and she knows that it was the word of the Lord spoken to her that was the cause of her condition.

Mary has begun to come to grips with her situation. She says, “From now on all generations will call me blessed; for He who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is His name.”

She knows she’s a young, single girl who’s pregnant.
She knows that when she returns to Nazareth in a few months, that will be obvious.
She knows her father and mother will demand answers.
She knows her fiance could demand her death by stoning, or publicly divorce her.

But Mary also knows that God is faithful. She knows He is mighty. She has nothing else to hold onto but the promise of His faithfulness in the midst of a situation that could still go horribly wrong. Everything she held dear – her reputation, her family, her marriage and her future – they could all be gone as soon as her belly betrays her condition to Nazareth. But she chose to trust that the Father would care for His only Son. so Mary declares “From now on all generations will call me blessed.”

It’s Matthew who let’s us in on Joseph’s dilemma as he wrestles with Mary’s condition. Either Mary hadn’t told Joseph about her angelic encounter or Joseph didn’t believe her. (Lay your halo aside for a moment, let’s not over-spiritualize this. If your daughter or fiancee was obviously pregnant – would YOU believe the explanation Mary had to offer?? I’m not sure I would.)

Gabriel shows up again and sets Joseph straight. But all that did was add Joseph into the mix, entering into this marriage would be viewed as a tacit admission of his own guilt.

Both Joseph and Mary embraced the call of God and ignored anything else. Because God was involved, they were pregnant with destiny. The son to be born was a person of purpose. There could be no mistaking that.

SO, here’s the BIG NEWS that I promised. Are you ready?? Because He was born, because He has invited you into His family – you TOO are a person of purpose. You, my friend, are pregnant.

You are pregnant with destiny. He has a plan for your life. He has gifts prepared for you, and has designed good works for you to walk in.

Congratulations. You’re pregnant!

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